Dating Commitment Phobia

Are you a person who has problems dealing with phobia? If your answer is like, “Come on, she is the one who always have the problems. I have absolutely no issues about commitment.”

Are you sure? Think again. The reason why people are usually so afraid of commitment is because that they are unable to lead their regular lifestyles! Are you prohibiting her from living her regular lifestyle? Sometimes, it is good to review your wooing techniques. Are you too aggressive? Are you too self-centered? Or are you simply too possessive?

Don’t assume quickly that these qualities can be derived after the woman has dived into the relationship. Most of the time, women decipher your characteristics before they decide they want to enter the relationship.

“Hey, but some women complain that their boyfriends are possessive after they enter the relationship!”

I agree absolutely. But, there is something that you have forgotten. Usually, guys act like gentlemen before they enter a relationship as well! Basically, it is quite hard to be comfortable with someone you fancy.

So, don’t lie to yourself. Don’t act who you are not. If you don’t have deep feelings, it is wise for you to consider moving on in your life. Otherwise, when she maintains status quo after a few months of courtship, it is time to change your dating habits and traits.

No one said that a major change in your habits is going to be easy. Therefore, you should always start with taking tiny steps to fulfill your goal of finding a cute girl. There are really no shortcuts. Just take things as they go along and don’t force your own ideals on others.